As a Spiritual Healer I must always remember never to tell a patient what to do, under any circumstances.
I can of course explain to a person that for every action they take, there will be an opposite and equal reaction, to whatever they may do, or say. And that of course applies to each and everyone of us.
I can however give them a long list of possible actions they could take.
In other words, put the ball firmly back into their own court.
But never ever make a decision for them. Because without fail anything you decide for them will come back and bite you in the years to come, and you will have been ‘wrong’. You could even have been the reason why something horrendous happened in that persons life. All because of something you told them to do years earlier!
We must never make decisions for anyone, they are not ours to make.
Yes we might have to stand by and watch a loved one make the biggest mistake of their lives, but it’s their decision to make, their choice to make, their mistake to make - not ours!
If you don’t want to be blamed in the years to come for changing or interfering in someone’s life...then stop yourself now before you make the wrong choice.
Why I have been talking about this now?
Because just the other day I was asked by a patient. “What do you think I should do Isabella?
Please tell me what to do.”
And I said to her what I’ve been saying to my patients for over thirty years. “ Sorry, No. It’s not for me to decide your fate. The choice has to be yours. No one can make the choice for you. I can give you lots of scenarios, lots of different ways to look at the situation you are in. But at the end of the day, only you can make the decision as to what you should do.
I can however help you by giving you a healing treatment, so that your energy is stronger and more balanced. Which in turn will help you to think clearer, and that’s got to be a good thing.”
So that’s what we did.
We must all remember never to make a decision for someone else.
That decision is not ours to make.
Healer, family or friend.